We may next
proceed to consider the marital relations of men and women. What does history say?
In the beginning there was no law of marriage among the Aryans. It was a state
of complete promiscuity both in the higher and lower classes of the society.
There was no such thing as a question of prohibited degrees as the following
instances will show.
Brahma married his own daughter Satarupa. Their son was Manu the founder
of the Pruthu dynasty which preceded the rise of the Aiksvakas and the Ailas.
Hiranyakashpu
married his daughter Rohini. Other cases of father marrying daughters are
Vashishtha and Shatrupa, Janhu and Jannhavi, and Surya and Usha. That such
marriages between father and daughters were common is indicated by the usage of
recognizing Kanin sons. Kanin sons
mean sons born to unmarried daughter. They were in law the sons of the father of the girl. Obviously they must be
sons begotten by the father on his own daughter
There are
cases of father and son cohabiting with the same woman, Brahma is the father of
Manu and Satarupa is his mother. This Satarupa is also the wife of Manu.
Another case is that of Shradha. She
is the wife of Vivasvat. Their son is Manu. But Shradha is also the wife of
Manu thus indicating the practice of father and son sharing a woman. It was
open for a person to marry his brother's daughter. Dharma married 10 daughters
of Daksha though Daksha and Dharma were brothers. One could also marry his
uncle's daughter as did Kasyapa who married 13 wives all of whom were the
daughters of Daksha and Daksha was the brother of Kasyapa's father Marichi.
The case of
Yama and Yami mentioned in the Rig-Veda is a notorious case, which throws a
great deal of light on the question of marriages between brothers and sisters.
Because Yama refused to cohabit with Yami it must not be supposed that such
marriages did not exist.
The Adi
Parva of the Mahabharata gives a genealogy which begins from Brahmadeva.
According to this genealogy Brahma had three sons Marichi, Daksha and Dharma
and one daughter whose name the genealogy unfortunately does not give. In this
very genealogy it is stated that Daksha married the daughter of Brahma who was
his sister and had a vast number of daughters variously estimated as being
between 50 and 60. Other instances of marriages between brothers and sisters
could be cited. They are Pushan and his sister Acchoda and Amavasu. Purukutsa
and Narmada, Viprachiti and Simhika, Nahusa and Viraja, Sukra-Usanas and Go, Amsumat
and Yasoda, Dasaratha and Kausalya, Rama and Sita; Suka and Pivari; Draupadi
and Prasti are all cases of brothers marrying sisters.
The
following cases show that there was no prohibition against son cohabiting with
his mother. There is the case of Pushan and his mother Manu and Satrupa and
Manu and Shradha. Attention may also be drawn to two other cases, Arjuna and
Urvashi and Arjuna and Uttara. Uttara was married to Abhimanyu son of Arjuna
when he was barely 16. Uttara was associated with Arjuna. He taught her music
and dancing. Uttara is described as being in love with Arjuna and the
Mahabharata speaks of their getting married as a natural sequel to their love
affair. The Mahabharata does not say that they were actually married but if
they were, then Abhimanyu can be said to have married his mother. The Arjuna
Urvasi episode is more positive in its indication.
Indra was
the real father of Arjuna. Urvashi was the mistress of Indra and therefore in
the position of a mother to Arjuna. She was a tutor to Arjuna and taught him
music and dancing. Urvasi became enamoured of Arjuna and with the consent of
his father, Indra, approached Arjuna for sexual intercourse. Arjuna refused to
agree on the ground that she was like mother to him. Urvashi's conduct has
historically more significant than Arjuna's denial and for two reasons. The
very request by Urvashi to Arjuna and the consent by Indra show that Urvashi
was following a well established practice. Secondly, Urvashi in her reply to
Arjuna tells him in a pointed manner that this was a well recognized custom and
that all Arjuna's forefathers had accepted precisely similar invitations
without any guilt being attached to them.
Nothing
illustrates better than the complete disregard of consanguinity in cohabitation
in ancient India than the following story which is related in the second
Adhyaya of the Harivamsha. According to it Soma was the son of ten
fathers—suggesting the existence of Polyandry—each one of whom was called
Pralheta. Soma had a daughter Marisha—The
ten fathers of Soma and Soma himself cohabited with Marisha.
This is a case of ten grand-fathers and father married to a woman who was a
grand-daughter and daughter to her husbands. In the same Adhyaya the story of
Daksha Prajapati is told. This Daksha Prajapati who is the son of Soma is said
to have given his 27 daughters to his father, Soma for procreation. In the
third Adhyaya of Harivamsha the author says that Daksha gave his daughter in
marriage to his own father Brahma on whom Brahma begot a son who became famous
as Narada. All these are cases of cohabitation of Sapinda men, with Sapinda
women.
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